这次的旅程人物有爸爸,妈妈,小妹,ady(小妹男友),B仔(我的男友),当然还有我啦!!!
Favourite♥♥ Songs
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
香港之旅-Day 1
这次的旅程人物有爸爸,妈妈,小妹,ady(小妹男友),B仔(我的男友),当然还有我啦!!!
Monday, August 10, 2009
说谎
最近不知怎么了,我的生活中总是出现说谎的人.这些大骗子扰乱了我的生活,因为他们的人格问题让我很烦,我不能接受那说不停的谎话,我讨厌自己要扮成苯蛋,装着相信他们.
我气自己没办法揭穿他们的谎言
说谎-是一中引用不真事的叙诉来欺骗,其目地是为了错诱他人
从我的经验来看说谎可分为四大类
- 掩饰自己的过错
- 为了让别人认为自己很本事(俗称吹牛)
- 不想信他人
- 不愿和他人分享事实
掩饰自己的过错
即然都知道自己不对,就该认错改过啊!
人非圣贤,孰能无过
但是,知错不该,实在悲哀.
这一种人,会不停的编谎话让自己的错不被发现.
但,他们每天会提心跳胆.
arrr为什么呢???因为但心自己的谎言会被视破啊,haha!!!
真悲哀...
吹牛
都知道自己的不足,就应该去把自己的不足补满吧!
编骗话来让他人认为自己很棒,很又钱太可笑了!!!这种人经常通常说谎说到上瘾.
你有多少斤俩,始终大家都会知道吧!
这一种人,也可悲应他门无法面对现实.
hmm...我的劝告是,与其花时间骗人,还不如努力达成自己的目标.
这样,大家会更崇拜你,尊敬你.
不想信他人
如果你的目地是要保护自己,而且对方也不是善男信女,那是可以原谅的.
但是,如果因为你不想信他人却伤害疼爱你或你疼爱的人,那还是不对的.
别说自己别无选择,跟不要说你是被逼的!!!
因为我很确定还有别的方法,只是较自私的你选择了较容易的方法罢了!
不愿和他人分享
不愿掏心掏肺的把自己不愿被人知道的私是告诉那些讨厌的八卦鬼,我决对举双脚赞成.
这些人得讯问不时关心,只是为了和他那曲八卦团找新闻.活该被骗!!
但是为了不想被关心你的人分享而说谎,似乎不太对吧...
那, 该怎么办? 总不能装没听到吧!
下次,试试笑着很礼貌的回答''为什么你要知道呢?''
虽然我承人我,也曾经说谎也可能还会说谎,但是我尽量做到不伤害,我爱的人,关心我的人和真心相信我的人.
我讨厌说谎,因为一个谎话要用好多谎话来掩盖,那是停不下来地,那是以个无底洞.
太累人了...
对了,你呢?快戒掉它吧
因为谎言最后还是会被发现的,不说并不代表他们不知道,只是顾及你的面子,只是在等待你说实话
的一天罢了!
P/S:这篇是真的我本人自己写的,觉对没参考任何文章.真的啦!!!我也有自己的想法.
Friday, August 7, 2009
○ο。°相遇不是用來生氣的°。ο○
可能因為人多,男的不時地將手臂圍住女的,並輕聲的問「累不累?」「待會想吃些什麼?」
只見女的不耐煩地回答「我已經夠煩了,吃什麼都還不先決定,每次都要問我。」
男的一臉無辜的低下頭,而後說了令我印象深刻的話。
「讓妳決定是因為希望能夠陪妳吃妳喜歡的東西,然後看到妳滿足的笑容,把今天工作的不愉快暫時忘掉。我的能力不足,妳工作上所受的委屈我沒法幫妳, 我所能做的也只有這樣。」
女的聽了後,滿懷愧疚的說聲對不起。男的這才似乎重燃信心般說:「沒關係,只要你開心就好。」而後親吻了女的頭髮。 下車前再回頭看看這對情侶,男的依舊保護著心愛的人。
這樣的情景,讓我覺得自己今天同樣在工作上有些許不愉快,如果沒有聽到這一段對話,回家後的我,可能也是一副全世界都對不起我的臭臉面對心愛的人,只在乎自己的委屈,卻忽視對方的感受,不自覺地傷害最親密的人。
所以在踏進家門時,我問自己,難道我要像公車上那位女孩一樣忍心將自己的不滿委屈帶給身旁的人嗎?不,我想我現在應該做的是...
別再把工作上的情緒發洩在心愛的人身上, 破壞了最親密的關係,並且主動給自己一個微笑。
相遇,不是用來生氣的!說得真好!當自己快抓不住情緒時,想想這句話, 應該會讓煩忙的生活,加些微笑的因子吧!
同樣地,在日常生活中,我們牽掛得太多, 我們太在意得失,所以我們的情緒起伏,我們不快樂。在生氣之際,我們如能多想想︰
- 「我不是為了生氣而工作的。」
- 「我不是為了生氣而教書的。」
- 「我不是為了生氣而交朋友的。」
- 「我不是為了生氣而作夫妻的。」
- 「我不是為了生氣而生兒育女的。」
那麼我們會為我們煩惱的心情闢出另一番安詳
看完之後,當你和朋友,家人爭執時…
要記得你們的相遇…不是用來生氣的喔…
但...人非聖賢...誰能不生氣呢…看了這篇文章以後…記得.....下次要生氣時… 就別生太久…
Special Friday
'Janelle, please monitor this closely. Critical Situation here. Oh yes, stop the small talk and work on the bigger picture.'
What???what u mean by small talk? what u mean by i need to work on bigger pic? even i really did that, why need to send to all my donwnliner? i very angry but i still ignore as I think that i done nothing wrong, i still do my job.
Suddenly aftter lunch, I receive a forward email from big boss to him asking him what he mean on this sentence. let's see how the freak reply.
''It was not to Janelle boss, it was meant for the bad debt team. The past few days i been having and catching staff of them with small issues and talking on outside things rather then focus and working. That’s why I send this email sir. Sorry.
Then boss reply to him
''Better careful & more sensitive on your words & sentence. From my understanding, your email mentioned that she creates some issue. Always remember: Reader & Writer do not have the same mindset & common understanding. I would suggest that you need to explain to Janelle for this in order to avoid any misunderstanding & make the teamwork breakdown.
As expected, freak is coming to me twist and turn story and tell me boss screw him. I don't believe and i also dunwan to guess it as big boss say 'What is his real intention, only he know'.
big boss comment that want me to tell him if i feel not happy, he dunwan to be the last person.
hmm...i think boss seems change also, he start to protect me and listen to me.
whatever my problems recently he will respond, i feel sweet...
Eventhough i had a weird freak as boss, but i had manage to change big boss and our relatioship get closer bcoz of that funny freak...what i can say is 'bad thing always come with good reason lo!
Overall is still a happy friday!

Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Mistake

One of the smartest things you can do is to entertain the possibility that you may be mistaken.
Because if you are mistaken, and you're able to see it, you have the opportunity for great progress.
There is no dishonor in being mistaken. Yet there is great folly indeed in being so stubborn that you refuse to admit your own mistakes.
Mistakes can be 'Powerful teachers'. By knowing firsthand what does not work, you gain much greater understanding about what does work, and why.
That's the reason that I hate and can't forgive person who done the repeated mistakes!!!
High Class secretary
doing admin job, doing analysis, arrange interview...
The reason i do collection is because i like to deal with people, because i hate to do work alone, because my mouth will smelly if i din talk to people, because i will fall on sleep if whole day just look at PC, because I'm a unorganise person.
But, nowadays I'm doing these. My working life is no meaning, boring, no job satisfaction, no involvement. I'm telling myself, never mind, high pay with less job, I'm the highest pay secretary. this is what i can do to motivate myself
Mana Susu Soya saya?
Eventhough I had drank other soya bean, but the one who can supplement my most favourite SS2 soya bean here is only uncle kacang. I had missed the SS2 soya milk on my last KL trip.
Mr.Bean, the day without you like
- Car which is long time never send for service.
- handphone that weak in battery.
- Kids long time receive sweet.
- Month end time that salary already finish.
my life is very dry without u...