I had male staff who married in young age (21++) due to wife pregnant, he was one of me anak kesayangan as he have very good attitude and looks guai guai.
I attended his wedding, I been assiting & advicing him during his face family problem & financial issues. recently there is rumuor that his and wife had seperated & he is very close with one of our female staffs that age 36++. At first, i choose not to bother this stupid rumours but till I personally saw them in & out together...suddenly i feel very pain on it.
As usual, I called him to the room with my UH. He told us that with the female staff only sister & bro relationship, nothing special feeling and he dun bother on other comment & view.
When i start to talked abt his wife, he told me a very shocking news 'I married her bcoz her family come and beg me to do that as that time this fren (wife) was pregnant on other guy baby'. WHY U AGREE???? (I shocked and asked). Bcoz his wife promise can help the financial problems of his family. His eye was full of tears, he felt helpless now that wife is getting tire of his non stop family problems. Mother run away, father move back hometown, brother eye operation & money not enough...bcoz of this he willing to marry a gals that carrying other guys baby, what i can give besides sympathy then is nothing
what I can do for him? just pretend nothing and only support him quitely and ask him to be strong...marriage that with exchange condition still happend around me...I still not able to accept this till now, I am still very emotion.
