○ο。°相遇不是用來生氣的°。ο○

前日往回家的公車上，轉程靠站時，乘客頓時多了起來。一對上班族男女恰巧在我身邊，吸引了我的目光。

可能因為人多，男的不時地將手臂圍住女的，並輕聲的問「累不累？」「待會想吃些什麼？」
只見女的不耐煩地回答「我已經夠煩了，吃什麼都還不先決定，每次都要問我。」
男的一臉無辜的低下頭，而後說了令我印象深刻的話。

「讓妳決定是因為希望能夠陪妳吃妳喜歡的東西，然後看到妳滿足的笑容，把今天工作的不愉快暫時忘掉。我的能力不足，妳工作上所受的委屈我沒法幫妳， 我所能做的也只有這樣。」

女的聽了後，滿懷愧疚的說聲對不起。男的這才似乎重燃信心般說：「沒關係，只要你開心就好。」而後親吻了女的頭髮。 下車前再回頭看看這對情侶，男的依舊保護著心愛的人。

這樣的情景，讓我覺得自己今天同樣在工作上有些許不愉快，如果沒有聽到這一段對話，回家後的我，可能也是一副全世界都對不起我的臭臉面對心愛的人，只在乎自己的委屈，卻忽視對方的感受，不自覺地傷害最親密的人。

所以在踏進家門時，我問自己，難道我要像公車上那位女孩一樣忍心將自己的不滿委屈帶給身旁的人嗎？不，我想我現在應該做的是...

別再把工作上的情緒發洩在心愛的人身上， 破壞了最親密的關係，並且主動給自己一個微笑。

相遇，不是用來生氣的！說得真好！當自己快抓不住情緒時，想想這句話， 應該會讓煩忙的生活，加些微笑的因子吧！

同樣地，在日常生活中，我們牽掛得太多， 我們太在意得失，所以我們的情緒起伏，我們不快樂。在生氣之際，我們如能多想想︰

• 「我不是為了生氣而工作的。」


• 「我不是為了生氣而教書的。」


• 「我不是為了生氣而交朋友的。」


• 「我不是為了生氣而作夫妻的。」


• 「我不是為了生氣而生兒育女的。」

那麼我們會為我們煩惱的心情闢出另一番安詳

看完之後,當你和朋友,家人爭執時…

要記得你們的相遇…不是用來生氣的喔…

但...人非聖賢...誰能不生氣呢…看了這篇文章以後…記得.....下次要生氣時… 就別生太久…

Special Friday

I was excited waiting for the day of friday, who know early morning receive a very demotivated email from that freak. He sending a lecturing email all leader and me, CC to boss. But I 'ms shocking in the last sentence of the mail

'Janelle, please monitor this closely. Critical Situation here. Oh yes, stop the small talk and work on the bigger picture.'

What???what u mean by small talk? what u mean by i need to work on bigger pic? even i really did that, why need to send to all my donwnliner? i very angry but i still ignore as I think that i done nothing wrong, i still do my job.

Suddenly aftter lunch, I receive a forward email from big boss to him asking him what he mean on this sentence. let's see how the freak reply.

''It was not to Janelle boss, it was meant for the bad debt team. The past few days i been having and catching staff of them with small issues and talking on outside things rather then focus and working. That’s why I send this email sir. Sorry.

Then boss reply to him

''Better careful & more sensitive on your words & sentence. From my understanding, your email mentioned that she creates some issue. Always remember: Reader & Writer do not have the same mindset & common understanding. I would suggest that you need to explain to Janelle for this in order to avoid any misunderstanding & make the teamwork breakdown.

As expected, freak is coming to me twist and turn story and tell me boss screw him. I don't believe and i also dunwan to guess it as big boss say 'What is his real intention, only he know'.
big boss comment that want me to tell him if i feel not happy, he dunwan to be the last person.

hmm...i think boss seems change also, he start to protect me and listen to me.
whatever my problems recently he will respond, i feel sweet...
Eventhough i had a weird freak as boss, but i had manage to change big boss and our relatioship get closer bcoz of that funny freak...what i can say is 'bad thing always come with good reason lo!

Overall is still a happy friday!