My Best Sista Promotion

My Best, Tate just delivered a princess last Tuesday. I was very touched when heard she had promoted to be mummy, she so great that deliver a new born...

3 of us was so envy her that she had experience so much in her life and we are very glad that can share with her this period.

Some of you do not have her FB, so i upload her Baby photo here again.

Photo sponsored by Yit Xin

Mummy Look~~she is getting much prettier after pregnant
Her cute hubby still not forget to take photo in this emergency time

Princess Jane was so adorable, Cute max~~

I love this Photo, Tate really have mummy feel

Now Tate mummy Suffering, opps should enjoying her confinement...Pity her canot bath in this hot weather m'sia. Gambatei Tate, we are awating the gathering with you after confinement.

Coming Desaru Trip

Another 2 days is my short trip-desaru with B 仔, I am waiting this for almost 1 month...
Is my anti-social B 仔 propose this short honeymoon before bangkok trip (we have been very looong time nvr have 2 person world). I was shouting, "Wohoooo!!!'when heard that as very rare have this proposal from him

Eventhough we had arguement during this arrangement, eventhough is only 1 day (we have alot other schedule)...but we are very excited for it..

I want to have stroll on beach, to absorb more negative Ion from the sand to release my tension, I want to swimming in the big pool, I want to seating at the beach waiting for the sunset (hope this time i really have the opportunity, I missed it 3 times), I want to go sungai Rengit for the fresh seafood & lobster..

DESARU I am coming...

Batik Dress Night

Honourly Sponsored by: Bernice Choah

What is QingMing Festival

Tomb-sweeping day is what we called QingMing, IT is a major Chinese festival.

This is a time to remember the dead and the dearly departed. It allow us to pay respect to our deceased ancestors and family members to show our filial to them.

Favorite food of the ancestors, will be put around the grave for the spirit of the ancestors. The Chinese believe that the dead ancestors are not eating well in their afterlife. Giving them their favorite food not only shows respect for them but also brings the descendants good life and health.

We believe that the spirit has power to fulfil wishes. The food is not wasted as after prayers they will be brought back and shared among the descendants. The Chinese believe that eating them brings good health. Also, paper money is burned, candles are lit and the whole family kneels to pay respect. The Chinese also believes that paper money can be consumed in heaven or hell.

The implicit meaning is during the life time of thier ancestor they treat them 'not so well' as after their ancestor passed away lor! and they do this is because they hope to get the blessing from thier ancestor, is consider for the sake of Ownself!!!

Certain native or family have thier pantang (taboo) on thier QingMing prayer.
Some they not allow daughther side to join the prayer of thier deceased ancestors as they worry they will share the family wealth or luck (some sort like that)
There is one rules that all sibling must do the grave sweeping together istead of praying separetely ownself. There is rumuor saying that it will bring some bad luck la...But The actual reason is bcoz if they do the QingMing separately is symptom the relationship of them (siblings) are 'not ngam' non reunion

For my dad & mum side QingMing, we are welcome both daughther and son side to join the praying session. I will tried to participate this event if I am in JB. This year, mummy and daddy side was arrange on the same day. Luckily my paternal granparents & maternal granparent are neighbour, thier graves are locare at the same Taman, so we still can join the prayer for maternal side after paternal side done.

As for mummy side, is much more happenning and merrier.
we normally will do the picnic at maternal tomb..Mum and auntie they all will be very busy gossiping and discussing thier long time meet old frens (bcoz tomb is locate at thier hometown they can see thier childhood frens during this time).
Sometime, they will kepoh to see what other ppl bought for thier prayer
''wah, XXX got buy the bicycle that looks so real''
"wei, just now i saw one the decease is so young''
laughing and recalling thier childhood memories.

1 thing they never miss out is , they sure will request 4 digit from my granparents for thier lottery.

Site View at 7am morning

Paternal Grandparent grave

Mummy and Auntie is setting up thier praying stuff

One thing i hate during this festival is the broken tiny moutain road to enter the ancestral grave is create alot inconvenience and heavy jam. Every year, they will be fighthing or shouting for those who enter or going to leave the sites

Maternal granparent site

Full of paper money, clothes, shoes, accessories
Eason & mummy

(we all laugh at mum attire which looks like the PIC of the gardening of the grave)
Putting another type of paper on the upper part of the grave
This only can be do by guys-Yup ladies are not allow to step on the grave.
Why? i also dunnoe, pantang lor!

Another merrrier part, we will playing the firecrakers during praying session

Cousin is setting up the stick for hanging the firecrakers

Bomm..bomm.boom...

Total we have lighted more than 4 firecrakers

Everyone is closed thier ear for this high frequency noises

Suddenly the censer on fire, this is what we called '发炉' in chinese, is a good symptom represent that my granparents are happy also is has the meaning of 'Huat la!!' (Fortune)

After praying then is buring those paper money and necessities for them...

wow!!! If my granparents manage to receive all, sure they are 'multibillionaire'

Everyone is running awat once the papar start burning because it make u feel like a roasted chicken in hot oven

We will throwing papers that in long and white (another type paper money) during the burning session. because of the hot air, the paper money will flying high and blowing by wind.

Of coz for those kids, is another throwing high competition.

Can you see how high the paper flying to?

♥♥ Valen NewYear♥♥

Is another long due post.

I am not effective blogger after i got I-phone as i very lazy to on lappie to fb, and i have to finish fully utilize my free 500MB from Maxis

2010 CNY is very special not even because it fall on valentine but also because is the first time B仔 is celebrate this 2 important date with me.

First day CNY I hope i can take vegetarian food, so keep remind my family the day before
Early morning is Family Time (papa, mama, Auntie, sis, ady & B仔), whole family go 'Tian Hou Temple' bai bai (pray)...got special reward leh, we met the S'pore artist蔡佩璇there, she looks more prettier than TV.

After that B仔 brought us to Vegetarian restaurant for lunch. I was very very happy as this is 1st time whole family and my love accompany me for vegedishes. ~~Sweet max <3>Sweet Dating Time, we went for the Hong Kong comedy moive 七十二个租客...is funny but not so good as expected.
I insist dun go for valentine dinner as I still on diet, dunwan order 2 set meal...so we went to Yew's Cafe for normal dinner meal.

Camwhoring before leaving
Another in Car

丘比特娃娃

they are much meaningful during Valentine

Those who watch 命中注定我爱你 should know what is this.

B仔, mummy and Teddelle

He looks not bad with certain angle

I am hungry

♥♥

While waiting for food serve

Terriyaki Chicken Chop***

Chessie Chicken Chop**

Mushroom Soup ***

Slurp Slurp

Chicken & crabstick Wrap *

looks nice is difficult to swallow...yuckks

No Big present, No fine food, No, Flower, No awesome outting but for me is enough as long he is beside me and I felt contented that I can celebrate this dual festival with my family also...

Is the First Memorable Valentine in my life..

Thanks for ALL who had spend thier days with me in ValenNewYear...

I Love you, Muacckssssss...

My Interview Experience

I had attended interview yesterday, is an unforgettable life experience. I must blog it out!!!

I was planning use 2-3 days to get ready this interview, who lknow Wed night boss sms me inform i had assessment on next day morning. 'Fark Q, have to wasted 1 day to study'
Wed night, I did not sleep enough just to study this stupid and ad-hod essessment as i worry if my score too low i will be the laughing stock in company. some more Kumar told me he had spent 4 days to study that, i feel angry for only 1 days preparation and at the same time worry have not enough time to prepare my interview...and more important thing is 'I COULDN"T FIND MY ORIGINAL CERTIFICATE'

yup, degree, diploma, and even SPM...the whole family is keep looking that paper which had spend 4 years and under tremendous pressure to get it yet now MIA. I had long time nvr see them as i mentioned almost 5 years never attend any interview.

I overnite at Amelie house the night before so i can be more well prepared for the interview.
I felt so warn when saw Amelie bought me my favourite 'Mr.Bean Soya milk'...and she had waited me late nite even she was have serious migrain.

Next day morning, i lagi jialat oversleept, luckily I was with Amelie, she help me make up and prepare milo and Sausage bun for me... ''sweetheart,thanks you very much, i feel so warm with your free breakfast & accompany that day <3''>

Camwhoring while waiting Bernice

sui bor? by Amelie *~*

Then I meet bernice for interview, we reached by 8:30am...it take us to queue for 1 hour for the number...interview will be conduct by group (10person), I am 48, Bernice 49i purposely don't same group with Bernice as I was copy her interview answer....waited till almost 1pm then our turn. We are keep planing what to eat after interview and just hoping everything end it asap

As expected, i was 'Kick out' in the first round...then I went to find Bernice, when heard her name was pass, we are so happy and she so suprised. Then I went for lunch and wait for Amelie to join me. Bernice also end up like me lor! but both of us no sad feeling at all just feel relax as everything finally end. And i could finally sleep well lor!

Specially thanks to also, B仔, Tate, Xp, bryan (Bernice bf) who had wishes me that day,paisei i let you all down :P

I knew I still nvr mentioned what job interviewed, if you want to know please ask me directly i am sure will tell you.

Actually, I had never thought that i will consider this job, after my best fren joined them and i feel that i had progress enough in my current job and also blur on what I want.

The most important is Amelie & Tate keep encouragement to me. This time i attend the interview just with thought of 'At least i tried it, i had no regret on my life' & I have best companion (Bernice). Of coz the main reason is the super attractive remuneration package that attract me.

However, during the long hour of waiting, i had seen there are alot alot people are hoping for this job. I saw alot of dissapointed eyes after they failed the interview, it had buit up stronger mind on me that I should tried it few more times even my fren they so qualified onlygot the job after 4-5 round interviews

Of coz i will do it again after i got my certificate la, else PMR student cannot get any job at all, I had spent 1 day today still tak dapat cari :P

Ya, if you know how to apply new SPM cert please share to me..

Interview

I will attend interview this saturday...don't know how to express the feeling..
This is first time to attend interview since i joined AEON Credit 4 1/2 years.

Where? What Position?Which company?


hehe...secret la, i will let you know after interview.
Also not sure i will take the offer or not as i worry B will postpone our plan if i got the job.
Hope i can perform well this interview, success or not is not matter at least i tried.

Wish me All the best ya!