Everything is uncertain, everything must get all parties satisfy, everything is happended without prepare,everything seems not enough time, everything is to co-related, everything seems urgent...OMG!
I am tension! I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!I am tension!
Luckily I have my fiance and best friend keep comfort and encourage me, without them i reali will collapse.
I keep told myself "Bad thing come with good reason, this is a learning opportunity for you, this is a initial stage of your next stage of life, whether like it or not you must handle and do it well...you are not doing it alone, all your love ones is with you"
Gambatei Janelle Chua!
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Wednesday, February 23, 2011
KLSE Investment: 成功，一次就够了
KLSE Investment: 成功，一次就够了: "有一个人，一生中经历了1009次失败。 但他却说：一次成功就够了。 5岁时，他的父亲突然病逝，没有留下任何财产。 整个家里就只有母亲外出做工。 年幼的他在家照顾弟妹，并学会自己做饭。 12岁时，母亲改嫁，继父对他十分严厉，常在母亲外出时痛打他。 14岁时，他辍学离校，..."
Monday, February 21, 2011
Memorable and Warm Rabbit Chinese New Year Celebration
I want to share with my friend only happiest CNY in my family in this Rabbit Year. Every year we will celebrate with maternal side family. This year reunion dinner was held at my 3rd uncle house at Austin Height.
This year CNY is much more merrier bcoz we have alot new members, my Singapore cousins family, cousins that first time joined us again after she married...and B仔 join us for this big event too. I am glad that he can beside me and experience one of the family event that I appreciate most.
Before CNY came, I keep told myself must enjoy this year bcoz after I married, I might not able to celebrate it with my family in cny eve. This might be the last or last 2 year CNY reunion with my big family (tears rolling each time I thought of this )
Photo credited to Best Photographer of Goh Family-Esther Goh
This year CNY is much more merrier bcoz we have alot new members, my Singapore cousins family, cousins that first time joined us again after she married...and B仔 join us for this big event too. I am glad that he can beside me and experience one of the family event that I appreciate most.
Before CNY came, I keep told myself must enjoy this year bcoz after I married, I might not able to celebrate it with my family in cny eve. This might be the last or last 2 year CNY reunion with my big family (tears rolling each time I thought of this )
Photo credited to Best Photographer of Goh Family-Esther Goh
The little gal with brown colour blouse-Esther Goh
3rd Uncle & Auntie-he is proud for his new year scrolls
Potluck DinnerAisk..Photo capture after food almost finish
After finish the buffet style potluck, all of us start to have our own activities, Let's have a look!
Playing around with little evil niece-Averil
吴家三朵老花
Gossip Session by Goh's 3 golden flowers
(I love this Pic most@ very happy smile from them)
Gambling session inside the house
(Place where all the kid can finish their red packet within 1 night)
Kids spinning around the house
(CNY is alway the best period for them bcoz they can have unlimited soft drinks and tibbits, red packet and best part is no more scolding session from adult)
Chamwhore session is alway smy fav
We love this pic alot
Kimmi (cousin)lagi suka chamwhore-pattern banyak
After rest, is time for lighting of 'Kong Ming Deng' (Wishing lantern)-Lantern for u to write your wishes on the it and sent it to sky for god to receive and help you realise it!
I dunnoe how true is it, but is very meaningful when whole family wrote all their wishes in a lantern and put it fly to sky together; Each of us praying sincerely together hope our family member dream come true soon.
6th uncle wrote all his lucky number-see the lantern he choose is 'Alway strike 4D'
Somemore he wrote with the first prize, 2nd prize, 3rd prize and consolation prize numbers
6th uncle family
Chin & Kimmi with their partners
Jerryck look tired waiting for my cousin-in law to light up the lantern
Photo session with my Family & wishing lantern-Kacha! Kacha!
Close up of our wishing lantern-$$$ come!
Now is another excitement session
Why everyone is so excited holding pair of chopstick with hand up?
The most being look forward session on our yearly reunion dinner-Lao Yee Sang
Yee Sang(Prosperity Toss)-Colourful raw fish salad
Everyone will shout their wishes loudly during the time they mix this 'Yee Sang'
Yum~Yum~~Taste so great especially when have it with my beloved family!After countdown session, it time to BOMB the sky!!!
2 silly cousins holding stick scarely on hand with firecrakers on
Uncles is smarter- hanging firecraker on long stick 
3 firecrakers in 1 time
Everyone start cover their ear and running far away
Neighbours nearby is having firework competitionwe are busy starring on the sky seaching for the best firework
This is how the firework look like
The fireworks reali make the night so colourful & wonderful
We keep show off to S'pore family gang 'See, you can't have this in s'pore!'
My S'pore family 'Can la, you can see this during national day'
Our respond is 'Ceii!!'
Before we end the dinner, we had a family portrait for each aunties and uncles family and also whole family.
Eldest aunties family and S'pore Cousins
Chua Family and future son in law <3>
Why they pulling the hand up?Bcoz when Esther request them do some informal pose...End up this is what the old folks posing
See, they so enjoy for that!
Last but not leastHappy CNY Reunion Family Portrait-Yipee!!!
For few reasons, this year is the most memorable and meaningful reunion dinner for me.
The unexpected thing is B仔 told me after the happy reunion dinner, he will try to arrange every 2 year let me have chance to come back have reunion dinner with my family even after married.
I was so shocked that he offered me this...So sweet to get this best pressie from him on the early cny. No wonder I accepted his proposal, he knew what my feeling and thought reali well.
Saturday, February 19, 2011
悲伤的新年
我和家人经历了一星期失去两位至亲。
大年初七，我刚和B仔家人捞完鱼生开心的离开餐馆是受到表姐的电话-伯伯去世了！
我父亲的亲哥哥，命不怎么好小时被车撞，脑袋伤到。说他傻；他又记得事会帮别人干活，说他正常；他又爱惹事乱骂人。只能说他是个爱到处乱走像小孩的大人！至从祖母过世后，就由我六姑姑照顾他。
姑姑说伯伯从初三就失踪了，正当大家但心快要去报警时（初七）小姑丈看到伯伯穿着一件很脏的衣服走向小姑丈家。就当大家以为找到了，他应改会去小姑丈家休息时，姑姑收到电话-伯伯在过了小姑家很远（走路要3小时）的马路被撞死了！走得好惨，整张脸和衣服都被撞飞了。
大家都不明白为什么伯伯没走去小姑家？为什麽一位天天走路（走了几十年）的人会在马路上被车撞。
有人说其实伯伯蛮好命，天天无忧无虑，那像我们天天担心烦忧。可是，就不能让他在睡梦中无痛地离开，为什么让他走得那么惨，那么痛？
就当我们准备伯伯初十一早上出殡，凌晨三点多收到另一个晴天劈力的消息-我四舅也走了！
和我蛮亲的舅舅，从小叫他Daddy。
人很好，爱帮人可是就爱野蛮大声说话。
最讨厌他蛮横的时后，几天前我还投诉他在团圆饭时要求多多，生气他宠坏表妹。
我永远记得是他载我去KL读书的。
看着那平时野蛮的他，静静地躺在棺木里，大家的眼泪不停的流。。。
妈妈伤心的问他不是说好下次一起去KL玩的吗？
舅母伤心的喊着舅舅...
表妹忍着眼泪拿着新年拍的全家福给舅舅看，唱着“世上只有爸爸好~~有爸的孩子像个宝~~”还和舅舅说“爸你去做仙哦，不用担心，我会照顾妈妈的”
大家看着那全家福，想着以后就没有他了，都哭成泪人。
当看着至情的人冷冰冰的躺在那儿，才来后悔自己曾经做的不够，才来责怪当初不应该如此的对待他们；都太迟了！来不及了！
这次让我深深地了解到，每次醒来自己的家人和珍惜的人还好好的活着是一种福份；能好好地与他们相处对待，是一次老天爷给我的机会。。。
大年初七，我刚和B仔家人捞完鱼生开心的离开餐馆是受到表姐的电话-伯伯去世了！
我父亲的亲哥哥，命不怎么好小时被车撞，脑袋伤到。说他傻；他又记得事会帮别人干活，说他正常；他又爱惹事乱骂人。只能说他是个爱到处乱走像小孩的大人！至从祖母过世后，就由我六姑姑照顾他。
姑姑说伯伯从初三就失踪了，正当大家但心快要去报警时（初七）小姑丈看到伯伯穿着一件很脏的衣服走向小姑丈家。就当大家以为找到了，他应改会去小姑丈家休息时，姑姑收到电话-伯伯在过了小姑家很远（走路要3小时）的马路被撞死了！走得好惨，整张脸和衣服都被撞飞了。
大家都不明白为什么伯伯没走去小姑家？为什麽一位天天走路（走了几十年）的人会在马路上被车撞。
有人说其实伯伯蛮好命，天天无忧无虑，那像我们天天担心烦忧。可是，就不能让他在睡梦中无痛地离开，为什么让他走得那么惨，那么痛？
就当我们准备伯伯初十一早上出殡，凌晨三点多收到另一个晴天劈力的消息-我四舅也走了！
和我蛮亲的舅舅，从小叫他Daddy。
人很好，爱帮人可是就爱野蛮大声说话。
最讨厌他蛮横的时后，几天前我还投诉他在团圆饭时要求多多，生气他宠坏表妹。
我永远记得是他载我去KL读书的。
看着那平时野蛮的他，静静地躺在棺木里，大家的眼泪不停的流。。。
妈妈伤心的问他不是说好下次一起去KL玩的吗？
舅母伤心的喊着舅舅...
表妹忍着眼泪拿着新年拍的全家福给舅舅看，唱着“世上只有爸爸好~~有爸的孩子像个宝~~”还和舅舅说“爸你去做仙哦，不用担心，我会照顾妈妈的”
大家看着那全家福，想着以后就没有他了，都哭成泪人。
当看着至情的人冷冰冰的躺在那儿，才来后悔自己曾经做的不够，才来责怪当初不应该如此的对待他们；都太迟了！来不及了！
这次让我深深地了解到，每次醒来自己的家人和珍惜的人还好好的活着是一种福份；能好好地与他们相处对待，是一次老天爷给我的机会。。。
让人永远珍惜的全家福
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
JY & Rachel Wedding
This is a super overdue post, me and B 仔had attend his best pal wedding on last year Nov. I actualli had upload the photo for long but keep waiting the photo from others to have complete post, I have no patient to wait anymore, jz let me finish the post the the church wedding photo.
Both newly wed is his very best frenz since secondary time, and only them never forget and appreciate B仔 despite he alway so passive for this friendship. They reali kind and cheerful gang.
B仔 first time join the brother gang, he was so worry before that as he alway heard how I tortured other wedding brother. Who know, the next day he came back and told me 'Sup sup water (just a piece of cake). We attended morning ceremony, church wedding and wedding dinner.
I love to attend church wedding as is very warm and touching ceremony, and the advice sharing by Pastor on how to managing marriage is very interesting, but this time the church wedding is abit lenghty and boring. I almost fall of sleep.
vowing session
1. If you love me, you must know my needs!
2. Every time is You (When complaining)
3. Good! you must hear my advice (Motherily/fatherily manner)
Both newly wed is his very best frenz since secondary time, and only them never forget and appreciate B仔 despite he alway so passive for this friendship. They reali kind and cheerful gang.
B仔 first time join the brother gang, he was so worry before that as he alway heard how I tortured other wedding brother. Who know, the next day he came back and told me 'Sup sup water (just a piece of cake). We attended morning ceremony, church wedding and wedding dinner.
I love to attend church wedding as is very warm and touching ceremony, and the advice sharing by Pastor on how to managing marriage is very interesting, but this time the church wedding is abit lenghty and boring. I almost fall of sleep.
vowing sessionThis is the interesting part i meant, the Pastor this time given us few suggesstion if we want our marriage to stay eternal. Please DO NOT do these:
1. If you love me, you must know my needs!We always assume that our partner already knew what we want, what we hope, how we feel. We assume they knew everything of us better than anyone. So when when they never do as what we like, given what we expect and care on our feel, than it will end with a very big dissapointment and of course fight/cold war.
I do agreed that is our partner duty to understand us well and care of us but if we did not share with them, did not tell them what you want, did not let them know what you feel...than how do you expect your "Kayu partner" will know that?
Communication is the crucial point, if you want to let them know what you need-Tell them nicely!
I knew guys sometime have the listening and memory problem, dun give up! Keep telling.
Base on reseach, if you want to remember something, you must keep telling for at least 6 times. So keeep repeat in different way in 6 times, so confirmed they will capture it well.
2. Every time is You (When complaining)When we have any argument, below words will sure prompt up by words or in your mind. You ALWAYS, You EVERYTIME in a very frustate mood.
However this words will always perceive by another party as 'I never change, I am the person who torture you, you alway suffer (victim) and you are pointing the finger to each other'
Try to communicate in a constructive manner when there is a conflict, it will be better you could tell them what you expect them to do in next time rather than blaming each other.
3. Good! you must hear my advice (Motherily/fatherily manner)Please la, you partner already under the monitoring of their parents for the past 20 or 30 years. When they get married, it mean they are adult and finally can enjoy his freedom. If you still expect them follow your instruction as their parent, must well he/she to be mummy boy/daddy girl.
3. Both of you must be always together and being possessive
You are mine so you cannot spend your time with others, we must do everything together All the time.
Ya, after married he/she is yours. It is good to plan and doing everthing together and sharing all the memories together. I agreed! that's reason we married.
But never overdoing it with possessive action like 'Never allow them atttend casual social gathering, not happy when they have their own gossip session with friends, Insist that he/she must be there with you eventhough he/she are damn busy'.
Come on la! they already willing to spend their balance of life with you, don't be stingy let them have some freedom.
4. If you will Appreciate,you will have the blessing marriage. Always giving thanks cause eternal blessing
Be grateful to whatever he/she did for you and your family
Eventhough they did not do it well enough, eventhough they did it unwillingly, eventhough they did it very late. But remember they still did it for You!!!
We always feel very touching and thanks to other ppl who help us or did small token to us but
Most of time, we tend to forget, tend to complain, tend to take it as good to our partner.
Start now, show your appreciation to them.
Thanks! I am so happy! I love it!-All these is such a simple words.
5. Love!It is purpose of life. However, the most important is that in pursuing it you become more gentle.
I believe, every of us heard this complaint from alot of old couple even our parent too that 'Last time he/she is not like that', 'Last time, they are so kind and soft to me'
Ya, many of us change alot when getting together long. We forget how to speak softly and gently assist them when they need. We just thought that since we already knew each other so well, need not to pretend..then started use the loud voice or throwing temper when communicate.
I read an article before, when we are in love there is 'No distance' btwn theheart. That the reason all the couple in love alway speak very soft yet they still can hear it.
(signal and reception are very clear and correct)
But when the distance of heart is getting wider, they will start to increase the voice when talking, sometime even shout! The scary distance make everyone start to getting fierce and higher the tone. And the more we shout, the distance is getting lagi wide.
If both couple can stop doing above point sincerely, high possible (not 100% guarantee)
You can be more loving as you grow old!
You know what? most of us will stare to our partner when we heard each point from the pastor with the OS 'Eiii, sound so familiar' 'Eiii, I think i was like the person he mentioned'
This is the happy newly wed
2 of them had experience alot of issues till now, they actually was couple during school time but too bad the relationship did not last long, they was just patch back less than 2 years only.
JY insit to held wedding this year bcoz he remember his promise to Rachel during school time puppy love 'I will marry you after 10 years later'. 2010 is the 10 year due date of his promise, he feel that is much meaningful it he can realise this promise.
Touching right?
Crystal aka Henry Fiance 
Seldom see my B仔 in charming look
6 of them are the best pal for more than 10 year.
3. Both of you must be always together and being possessive You are mine so you cannot spend your time with others, we must do everything together All the time.
Ya, after married he/she is yours. It is good to plan and doing everthing together and sharing all the memories together. I agreed! that's reason we married.
But never overdoing it with possessive action like 'Never allow them atttend casual social gathering, not happy when they have their own gossip session with friends, Insist that he/she must be there with you eventhough he/she are damn busy'.
Come on la! they already willing to spend their balance of life with you, don't be stingy let them have some freedom.
4. If you will Appreciate,you will have the blessing marriage. Always giving thanks cause eternal blessingBe grateful to whatever he/she did for you and your family
Eventhough they did not do it well enough, eventhough they did it unwillingly, eventhough they did it very late. But remember they still did it for You!!!
We always feel very touching and thanks to other ppl who help us or did small token to us but
Most of time, we tend to forget, tend to complain, tend to take it as good to our partner.
Start now, show your appreciation to them.
Thanks! I am so happy! I love it!-All these is such a simple words.
5. Love!It is purpose of life. However, the most important is that in pursuing it you become more gentle.I believe, every of us heard this complaint from alot of old couple even our parent too that 'Last time he/she is not like that', 'Last time, they are so kind and soft to me'
Ya, many of us change alot when getting together long. We forget how to speak softly and gently assist them when they need. We just thought that since we already knew each other so well, need not to pretend..then started use the loud voice or throwing temper when communicate.
I read an article before, when we are in love there is 'No distance' btwn theheart. That the reason all the couple in love alway speak very soft yet they still can hear it.
(signal and reception are very clear and correct)
But when the distance of heart is getting wider, they will start to increase the voice when talking, sometime even shout! The scary distance make everyone start to getting fierce and higher the tone. And the more we shout, the distance is getting lagi wide.
If both couple can stop doing above point sincerely, high possible (not 100% guarantee) You can be more loving as you grow old!
You know what? most of us will stare to our partner when we heard each point from the pastor with the OS 'Eiii, sound so familiar' 'Eiii, I think i was like the person he mentioned'
Henry aka B 仔frenz told us that he and the gf like hit all the point. lol!
I knew that eventhought I also far from those point, but at least i start working with it and improve better, I believe relationship is like business need to spend time and effort and is growing it in long term. Chayok! Chayok!
This is the happy newly wed2 of them had experience alot of issues till now, they actually was couple during school time but too bad the relationship did not last long, they was just patch back less than 2 years only.
JY insit to held wedding this year bcoz he remember his promise to Rachel during school time puppy love 'I will marry you after 10 years later'. 2010 is the 10 year due date of his promise, he feel that is much meaningful it he can realise this promise.
Touching right?
Crystal aka Henry Fiance 
Seldom see my B仔 in charming look
6 of them are the best pal for more than 10 year.Very kind and interesting gang, love to mix with them when we back KL
I am back
I am sorrry that abandon my blog for so long, there are so much pending post.
Too busy last month coz rushing for staff appraisal and so ganjiong for my exam, cleaning my messy room and wardore before chinese new year.
Finally settle everything that fall sick again that ruin all my plan...
That was so long i nvr touch the lappie.
No matter how, I am active again! stay tune
Too busy last month coz rushing for staff appraisal and so ganjiong for my exam, cleaning my messy room and wardore before chinese new year.
Finally settle everything that fall sick again that ruin all my plan...
That was so long i nvr touch the lappie.
No matter how, I am active again! stay tune
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Sickcat
Urrghhh, fall in sick again.
Non-stop vomitting, diarrhea and high fever make me so weak and almost fainted in clinic...
feeling body is getting old, just vomit and diarrhea can mk me dun even have energy to walk.
Mummy was soo worry about me, keep asking what to do as my face is so pale and i dun even have energy to respond. Thanks for the expired tea i drank, i deserved that! next time please check before put in anything into your mouth
Non-stop vomitting, diarrhea and high fever make me so weak and almost fainted in clinic...
feeling body is getting old, just vomit and diarrhea can mk me dun even have energy to walk.
Mummy was soo worry about me, keep asking what to do as my face is so pale and i dun even have energy to respond. Thanks for the expired tea i drank, i deserved that! next time please check before put in anything into your mouth
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